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On the 9th Day of Christmas, my true love gave to me...

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I know, traditionally the  12 days of Christmas  are celebrated starting Christmas day until  Epiphany  in January but I liked the idea of celebrating it leading up to Christmas.  I got the idea from a  blog I read pretty regularly.  The main point is to just bless your husband in some way on each of the 12 days leading up to or after Christmas.  I must tell you that this has been so much fun for me and by day 6 I could really tell he was enjoying it too, wondering what he would be getting each new day.  I didn't spend much money at all, as a matter of fact most of the things would have been stocking stuffers, and I just had to get creative with some of the other days, but it has been so fun to give him a little something everyday relating to the number of the day.  So, here is what he has gotten so far: Day 1 - Love and Respect book (he had asked for for his birthday) Day 2 - gloves Day 3 - 3 chocolate bars Day 4 - 1 box of poptarts has 4 packs in it.  A yummy treat! D

The Dark Days

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Photo Credit As I write this I am not sure why I am writing it, except to let my feelings out and possibly help others who are on this path behind us, which I guess is why I started this blog in the first place.  So, if you are one of those who have been asked, no, forced (because we had no choice in losing our loved one), to walk this valley, these are some emotions that you most likely will encounter... And if you are reading this just to hear how we are doing, thank you for understanding our roller coaster emotions. Somedays I just need to cry.  Somedays the emotions are so overwhelming I don't want to get out of bed.  If not for Lucy there are days I am certain I would have stayed in bed.  Crying, sleeping, trying to make the real world go away, feeling sorry for myself and dwelling on my little one taken from me, wishing she were in my arms again.   I'm sure many of you know what I am talking about. November 19 marked 3 months without Aimee, November 21 was my b